| April, 1990. I heard a dog
crying and found a puppy trying to climb our back glass door to escape
the neighbor dogs. My husband, Chet, was dying of cancer and I
couldn't take care of them both, so the puppy found a temporary home
with a friend. But, puppy that he was, in a few short weeks he chewed everything including holes in all her
kids' socks. The kids named him Jack. When Jack dug up her just planted tomatoes, Nancy decided he had to find another home. Chet had just died and Cindy was
devastated as I was. When I asked how much she wanted for Jack (she had neutered him and given him all his vaccinations), she asked, how much do I have to pay you to take him?
I used to tease Nancy that it had taken
hours of secret training to teach Jack to dig up her tomato
plants.
Jack's first job was to bring smiles and laughter where there were
tears. Jack was meant to be part of the family. He made Cindy's last years a joy -- I can still picture Jack tearing across the front yard
ferociously barking at something and Cindy, miles behind in collected canter (her top speed), barking at the unseen trespasser because she trusted Jack.
I was sitting in the navy chair in the living room missing Chet and suddenly realized the house was too quiet. Where was Jack? I swiveled the chair to find that Jack had been busily bringing me one by one the Kleenex tissues from the box
on the coffee table in the back room and had assembled a big pile for
me behind the recliner. Who wouldn't smile as he joyfully
fetched another Kleenex tail wagging in delight.
At one point, we had kiddie gates at each end of the kitchen as Jack was too much to have in the kitchen when I was cooking. I'd close one gate and he'd race through the office and living room hoping to beat me to the second gate. When I won, he'd lay down at the gate, looking like a prisoner in jail and wail while I cooked.
Jack had to go outside in the middle of the night and when he came back in, began to
noisily chew (on a rawhide chew bone - I thought). Something didn't sound right, so I raised up but could see him chewing something white - rawhide is white. I laid back down but still felt something wasn't right. I turned on the light to discover Jack was chewing on the flap on the La-Z-Boy recliner chair -- and the "something white" was the stiffening. There was no "fix" except to cut the flap off and be sure to never run out of chew bones for Jack. The chair was destroyed in the fire several months later so I never had to find a way to fix it. Chairs could be replaced, Jack couldn't.
Jack was my protector and took his job seriously. He never actually bit anyone, but he did grab several workers and let them know not to mess with his mom. His
ferocious bark kept most at bay. Even friends were not immune if Jack
thought I was in danger. We were putting the shelves in the
supply cabinet in the copier room when a box of plastic paper clips
fell startling Debby who let out a yell of surprise. Jack
appeared from nowhere and grabbed Greg by the thigh. Jack didn't
actually bite down, but sure let Greg know don't mess with my
mom.
Jack stuck to me like velcro -- riding in the front passenger seat in the Bronco, keeping my seat warm when I left him in the car, having several favorite places to sleep in the office, bedroom, living room -- following me as I moved through the house.
Jack, Cindy and I rode out the tornado in the bathroom closet. After that, we were all frightened by storms --- Jack seemed to become more frightened as he got older. It was the only time he would get into my bed.
I didn't need a weather alert radio, the first hint of lightening and
Jack would be pawing me awake.
After Cindy died, Jack mourned with me. I didn't realize how much he missed her. I'm sure that Cindy sent us Lady who has a few of Cindy's special mannerisms -- both Cindy and Lady can make their tails "helicopter" in a complete circle, Jack could only wag; Cindy and Lady both "pogo" - jump up and down in place when it's time to "go" in the car. Lady didn't replace Cindy, but found room in our hearts.
Recently, Jack decided that a
neighbor's white cement cocker spaniel yard ornament required him
leaping from the passenger seat to bark at it out the back
window. I always smiled at his aerial act when we passed the
cement spaniel. He only barked at it when we drove past headed
south.
After Jack was diagnosed with
inoperable cancer this past Spring, the vet urged us to enjoy the time
we had left. We did. Each morning after feeding Tiz, I'd have
coffee and read the paper with Jack on the back patio. We'd
"go" in the Bronco and frequently stop for ice cream -- two
small vanilla, please, in cups without lids and keep the change.
The drive in window at the bank was a favorite dog biscuit
source. We'd split a foot-long coney & tater tots with a
Sonic butterfinger blast. Jack always rode shotgun while Lady bounced
from left to right window in the back seat. She still considers
the passenger seat to be Jack's.
Brunch and dinner were always to be
followed by a dog biscuit (or two or three) from the cookie drawer and
then a chew bone. If I somehow "forgot", Jack would
insistently nudge and then lead me to his cookie drawer.
Jack faced life full speed ahead.
When I came home from Sydney, it was a delight to watch him playfully
chase Lady round and round the back yard. When I left for
Schumacher's clinic, Jack had had a bad weekend. I tearfully
called the vet telling them to do what was best for Jack if they had
to. Driving home from the airport, I didn't know if Jack would
still be home. I cried with joy when I saw both dogs in the
window. Jack refused dog food, but devoured all the special
prime rib, sauteed chicken livers, and ground beef.
Jack is buried with his favorite toy
right outside my office window beside his first love,
Cindy.
Although Lady is the noisy tom-boy who
snores like a freight train, can set off the glass breakage detector
with her high "C" bark when arguing over a chew bone, and
Jack was very quiet, the house seems empty and silent without
him. I understand "The Sound of Silence".
Michael Matson wrote "The Lord gave Jack to you as
a friend and teacher knowing that you would love and care for him. Now in the
name of that love it is time for him to go back home."
I know Jack waits at the Rainbow Bridge
with Diala, Cindy and Chet. Jack taught me to live life "full
speed ahead", to protect your friends, to enjoy fine meals, and
to laugh.
He was loved and appreciated all of his
days. He leaves an empty spot in our hearts.
More Jack antics
including Cat in the Hat, Noooo...., Jack the Greeter, and I'm Not
Doing Anything, Honest, Mom.
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